So i have my friend's bb pin in my phone. I told him to go add mine to his address book but i dont think he knows how to do that..anyways. even he doens't have mine, shouldn't i be able to add him to bbm...it just says pending!

It will stay pending until he/she opens BB Messenger and accepts you as a buddy. You will probably get a call wondering about the weird Icon they have on their screen...

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In the meantime if you wish to bug them just send a PIN message. This will work regardless of the BB Messenger request status.

yeah i will just go there and do it myself the next time i see him...he's verizon anyways so messaging is free either way