Just called TMO Customer service (ugh). After finally getting to a BB "Specialist" he confirmed that he has this option on his Handheld. He couldn't figure it out so he passed me over to RIM.
The guy at RIM did not have the option in his handheld and said that it wasn't something that RIM supported! He told me to call TMO and said that i was an issue for them, not RIM
This is a load of BS! I bought the handheld a week ago. I'll probably just return it and get another one that may or may not have this option.