OK I upgraded my phone form a 7520 to the new 7100 from nextel. my wife still has the 7520 and i send the request to her phone to add her to the list and she accepts, but it doesn't come through on my phone and when she send a request to me i never get it. my email is working and everything and i added my moms 7250 (or whatever veriozon has) with no problem. any help????

Sounds like she still has the PIN# from the 7520. You got a new PIN with the 7100i even tho the phone number etc remained the same.

Try have her delete you from her list then send you another invite to the 7100i PIN #.

she did delete me from her contact list