After upgrading blackberry web service the other day, I noticed something new when I clicked to delete messages received on handheld from added personal email accounts. When I do so, i get this dispay of choices:

? Delete message?
On Mailbox & Handh..
On Handheld
Cancel

I never want to delete on both mailbox "and" handheld. Does anyone know if there might be some setting somewhere I can change to omit having to see (and select a response to) this question every time? I have not been able to find one... Thx

Never mind, a much smarter (than me) friend showed me what to do. Answer was, go into messages in box. then Options / Email Reconciliation and then change Delete On: option from "prompt" to [just] "handheld". hooray!