Before I get flamed, I did a search, but searching for ringtones is like looking up Smith in the white pages, and I couldnt find what I am looking for.
I used a service posted on this forum that allowed you to upload photos to a site for downloading. Is there a service that will do this with sound clips and ringtones so we can save them on our BBs?
Appreciate the help

try "googling" for free webspace.
Put the files on your new site.
then all you have to do is access the page on your BB, and download from there.

i created a geocities page and a tripod page and uploaded the sound file, both as play manually and as play automatically and i cant get either to appear on the blackberry. very frustrating.

What format are they?

i uploaded them as a .wav file

MP3s only... WAV files won't work (as you've found out).