Does it mean that I need a data plan for with big caps GPRS right? so that i can be able to do the TCP/IP and everything uh?

Yes.

"Data Connection Refused" means you do not have a BB dataplan, as noted above.

I will not comment further upon this other than to say what has already been said " Gotta get a data plan man"

ok then, i will call the man on Monday for the data plan.....after this i will put the WAP settings right, TCP, IP and everything will be fine? and i can be able to have blackberry internet service right?

Yes, once you have a Blackberry Data Plan you can get the Blackberry Internet Service.

ok then well is it free by emailing each other?

i am new to blackberry Can anyone tell me if you have a bb phone and so does your soon to be ex. can they retrieve your email on their phone> he says he can get my emails off his phone. same account at the moment

huh? i dont understand what you mean

This can also mean you're in an area with limited or no data service. I get this message quite frequently when I travel into middle of know where areas.

ok then well is it free by emailing each other?