It is amazing RIM has these limits. I suggest you continue looking for a third party app.
"BlackBerry smartphone users can sort, view, or synchronize by playlist names. Media files cannot be sorted, viewed, or synchronized by album, artist, or genre unless BlackBerry smartphone users create playlists that contain songs from the same album, from the same artist, or in the same genre." KB16176-Installing, updating, and synchronizing media using BlackBerry Media Sync for Mac computers