[kapchis]

Ok, so I'm a Newbie with a used 7100t BB that I have NO IDEA how to use and have no user manual. I'm a Stay at Home Mom who only wants to use this as a cell phone, calendar, text messages, and the occasional directions/map. I'm on T-Mobile.
Here's what I'm having trouble with:

1. I use a Yahoo Calendar so that I can sync my husbands calendar and with Yahoo Groups Calendars (book club and preschool parent association). I understand that I can't use Intellisync to sync the Yahoo Calendar to my BB like I did with my Palm. After reading a few of the forums, I sync'd the Yahoo Calendar with my MS Outlook Calendar (which I've never used before). NOW, I can't figure out how to connect the darn BB to the computer to sync the MS Calendar. I'm using a USB cord, and the computer recognizes that there's a handheld there, the Blackberry Desktop Manager does not recognize that it's there. AAAAAARRRRGGGGGGHHHHHHH!!!!!!!

2. I purchased a Jabra BT160 Headset. I'm too stupid to figure out how to get my BB to "Discover" my headset. WHat the hell does that mean?


Thank you for any help you can offer!