And I've tried to use JL commander to wipe it, from here:
How do I wipe the BlackBerry using Jl Cmder? - BlackBerryFAQ but got no luck as it couldn't connect to it, so then I tried the instructions here
What to do next if Jl Cmder will not connect and wipe if JL commander couldn't connect, and I'm still not getting anywhere.
F&%#$!
What have I done???