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To answer your first question , we generally do not have any issues with a different opinion. People sometime offer different ideas and people will comment. when someone is being a jerk it is easy to tell and get put down.
The reason for this and CB like forums is to ask questions and get answers from people who may have had the same issue. As with all forums , the user asking has to evaluate the solution offered and decide which to try.

ATT does offer the BB's on their site but as with most carriers you have to select the manufacturer of the phone your looking for.

Anyway enjoy and welcome