Bionic... You can't wirelessly reconcile contacts without having BES, and it seems you are BIS.
So...
Install Desktop Manager on your PC.
Use Outlook Express or Outlook on you PC to enter the information you want to sync and have your BB.
In Desktop Manager, open and click on Sync, configure it to Outlook or Express.
Do you have Desktop Manager?
Where do I download the latest version of Desktop Manager? - BlackBerryFAQ