I would first recommend that you upgrade to version 2.1 (70606), which you can do from this link:
WebMessenger Inc. - Message Alerts for BlackBerry
You can upgrade OTA or desktop.
I've never used a previous version, so I can't help you there. I have it set up for individuals (I've never tried All Phone Calls) including myself to test it, and I seem to get reminders okay and get the option that you're looking for from your other post.