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Get the ATT version , more up to date 4.1.0.566
Follow these instructions:
How do I upgrade the OS on my BlackBerry? - BlackBerryFAQ
and you will be fine... yes you can load the ATT version with no problem if you follow those instructions, and no, it won't affect any operation of the device, it won't even know its the ATT version.