Is it recognizing that it is a blackberry when you plug it into the computer?
(Not DM!)
If so..
http://www.blackberryforums.com/gene...ilanguage.html
Follow that and upgrade going through those steps.
(1. Download the above OS file to the PC then install it to the PC by running (double clicking) the file you downloaded.
2. Go to c:\program files\common files\research in motion\apploader and delete the file named "vendor.xml."
3. Plug in BB and double click on "Loader.exe." It's located in the same place as the above vendor.xml file.")
IF it is NOT recognizing anything when you plug it in, I'll get back to asap on what I think.
EDIT: You would need to get a hold of a PC to upgrade through my steps, as I forgot you were working off of a mac! (Unless you're are able to crossover to a PC off you're mac (like Midnightdraven mention) it wont recognize the .exe through the link I just gave you.) My apologies.