www.tmobile.com/bbupgrade
as for the enterprise activation icon, just push ALT+Trackwheel and choose to Hide.
...and remember, its easier to simply do a search for these answers (and yes, both have been discussed, tossed around, dissected, trashed to hell and back, cooked a little on the dark side, and finally a vendor or user resolution posted).
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