Yes the red X, first and then the check mark, and the event log error message of this
*** MAPI *** MAPIMailbox::Send(ppMAPIMessage) - SubmitMessage (0x80070005) failed.[20000] (12/13 15:38:10):{0x7FC} {<
>} Send() failed:
so I have changed what this tech sheet on the blackberry/microsoft workaround.
then I get
Send() failed: ERR_SUBMIT_MAIL, Tag=36484774
Although I did not restart the services after I changed the tech sheet settings.